Whether you are a boy meeting a girl, two people entering a business relationship, long time friends or just communicating on Facebook, it happens, time after time and it’s the ultimate destruction of all relationships.
Our biggest problem is that we think other people’s realities are equivalent to our own. When that misconception gets out of hand we transform into our own opponent. We are the enemy we are fighting and usually the other person has no clue, until it’s too late… enter crazy.
We’ve all been there, reacting to a story that has played out in our heads to the point that we are so convinced we would almost bet our lives that it is true. Then more times than not we shortly afterwards find out that we couldn’t have been more wrong.
The bottom line is, we are the only actor in our own movie, half the time we think that other people are participating in this enactment we have created, when the reality is they are totally clueless.
Perception is the only thing we have. The stories we create in our minds when in a state of panic and fear are solely based on our own insecurities, beliefs, values and ideals. When we react to any given situation based on fear and all emotions resulting from fear, we are no longer part of a 2-person situation. We have isolated ourselves to our own movie and our own reality, where we are the only people who are privy to this story, contrary to what we may assume.
The key to all relationship failure is participating in a reality, that in reality we are the only one involved in. In doing so, the other person has no choice but to retreat because there is no possible way they can be an equal voice in a situation that doesn’t really exist and is created on sheer illusion.
In the meantime we just waste time worrying & stressing, all the while devaluing our selves and not living up to our soul potential. The opponent is the strongest when he/she turns into us and takes the roll of our own mind.
Our own worst enemy hides behind the least conspicuous door. Every time you react take a long look in the mirror and make sure it’s worth giving up a piece of your life for.
This is your movie; you decide how to produce it. You decide the roll you play and how it affects your story and the stories around you.
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